Submitting to another man and letting him dominate you is quite emasculating...however everybody already knows this. Everyone should take time to spice up their sissy play every so often and the same old moves may get stale...turn up the heat and make sure to take the time and care to truly emasclate a sissy properly. Man on sissy kissing is great. It's intimate and spicy; however, it lacks power dynamics.

Let's make it better, ball gag your sissy before makeout sessions to set the tone.

If you've been playing together for a while there may be patterns that develop where the dom lays off the gas peddle in the BDSM department to have a nice cute makeout mid-play with their sissy (and if you like gentle kisses and soft play that's totally cool - this is for people who want to turn up the heat). Ball gag your sissy and makeout with them..see what happens. Try to do an hour long session with your sissy's mouth filled at all times, no breaks unless safe words/motions are used. Start right, blindfold and gag them immediately. Preferably a 1.75in or greater diameter ball gag will be a good start. This will get them salivating, drooling, and thinking about oral fixation. After 10min of just letting them sit, then you proceed with going in for the kiss. The lack of attention and constant focus on the mouth will have your sissy starving for anything, especially a kiss. They will eventually let their guard down and give in to their fate of submissiveness. The gag and blindfold all let's the sissy focus on the kiss they are getting rather than having reservations on if they are a good kisser or not...they can't see, move their lips, or extend their tongue. You may notice a different eagerness or willing to be more open and willing to do things they normally wouldn't do...and have to because they normally don't kiss gagged. Try rotating your lips around the gag and spend lots of time licking the ball and the lips. You will have the hottest, most sloppy makeout session ever.

Now you want the sissy to give you head? Don't go right into ripping the gag out and putting your cock in. Try immediately swapping the ball gag out for a padded dido gag...remove the blindfold and have them start giving you a hand job. Use a gag to 1) always have their hole filled 2) prep their mouth for the next task. Ball gag = sloppy kiss and dildo gag for blowjob training before the real thing. Keeping a gag in will not allow them to even think about talking. All they shod worry about is moaning and drooling out their gag to show their thanks.

When I was dommed by a male man, we made out of course, but, this wasn't any vanilla make out session. I was feminized & chastised in a maid uniform kneeling on the floor in a hotel room with my hands cuffed behind my back and a large 2 inch black ball gag in my mouth and heavy duty padded blackout blindfold over my eyes. He put ear buds in my ear and played hypnosis for 10 min before finally giving me any attention. He removed the blindfold and was standing fully naked in front of me. He removed my cuffs and ear buds too and told me to strip down to nothing but bra, panties, heels and stockings. After I was stripped down to my all white undergarments. He reapplied the cuffs and blindfold. He leaned and said "I had you dressed in your all white lingerie so you would look cute and innocent before I took your sissy virginity." He grabbed my caged cock and pulled it so it would hang out on display from my panties. He then groped my bra with breast forms and said "wish these were real". He then leaned in and he pressed his lips on my gag and pulled back...he had an idea. He removed my breast forms from my bra and pulled my bra straps off my shoulders and down to my stomach (he wanted to see the bra on but he thoughtit would be sexy to pull it down), he then put suction cups on both of my nipples. All I could do was gasp through my ball gag and wiggle my arms behind my back. He leaned in and made with me through the ball gag for maybe 30 seconds or so. Probably the most satisfying kiss ever 💋. It was quite a sloppy kiss on my part because I just leaked drool everywhere. I could only "kiss back" by nudging my ball gag into his mouth to make contact with his lips. The ball gag created a barrier of separation that kept me the recipient and not the giver .

Point here is that being gagged and feminized made it clear who had the power and who was the man initiation in the encounter. I was a willing and consenting party but I was not able to engage in the most vanilla of activities in a remotely manly way. Men usually lean in for the kiss, maybe a French kiss, bite lips, insert tongue etc. - they often take the initiative of the kiss.

The ball gagged makeout session was definitely intimate and hot but served a reminder that I'm here to submit and be emasculated - not to just hook up.

By taking the few extra seconds to explain how he was emasculating me and why made it that much hotter. Many would just side with me wearing the maid uniform and just kissing but he took the extra step to make look and feel like a sissy virgin. Many would just have the sissy strip naked and not waste time with them even wearing anything but by keeping the bra and panties on he kept me feminized. The cage being pulled out of my panties and bra pulled down made sure I had everything on display for him. He owned every hole.