From that same facebook page, I found a couple more discussions I found relevant to what we were discussing here, that you can see in its original form here.

First graphic:

YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE:

• an interaction

• your time, energy, or love

• an explanation about how you live your life

• a response to their questions

• an apology when you aren't sorry

• insight into your private life

• clarification of your beliefs

• elaboration of your feelings

This fits that Dead-Ikeda-cult SGI longhauler Old very well. She often demands apologies when none are warranted, and tries to deflect justified criticism with something like "And you? How are you doing?" No one needs to feel obligated to answer that kind of inquiry from any sketchy stranger, especially one that's giving heavy overtones of "SGI hostile".

A few comments:

It’s a beautiful thing to give these things to people we love and trust, who treat us with respect. But we owe it to ourselves to be discerning about who receives our time, energy, and love. This doesn’t have to mean being cruel or shutting everyone out. It just means being intentional about who we choose to let in.

We at SGIWhistleblowers have EVERY right to "be intentional about who we choose to let in" - we are a unique place in the world where people can get specific support and information, and we give a lot of emotional support to the ex-SGI members and SGI members considering leaving. Of course the Corpse Mentor cult SGI zealots want to poison our site; they're utterly toxic and feel THAT is what should be spread throughout the world. These heavily damaged, indoctrinated individuals feel they have every right to be here and to behave however they please, without the slightest regard for our site and community rules and norma. We have a site worth defending from the Dead Ikeda cult's bad-faith actors.

Absolutely it is about discernment and intention. I believe the intention behind this post was to highlight that as adults with other adults you make a choice on how much of yourself you give. If you continually give to people who don't respect you, you burn yourself out and stop yourself from other more meaningful relationships in your life like family and friends. Sometimes adult family members can demand too much and treat you as a door mat. Always try to be kind first but in the end self care is just as important. Thank you as someone who has been a people pleaser this message is important.

That’s how I read it too, and I’m also a recovering people-pleaser.

agree doesn’t mean you are this with everyone all the time it’s about choice when and if you do

I've actually felt like that this year more than ever, it's been more important to me to protect my own energy than engage when I haven't really felt like it 🙂.

No one has any right to you. YOU choose how much you are willing to engage - and with whom.

Second graphic:

You gotta understand that some people never really grow. 
They never learn their lesson. 
They never recognize their mistakes, 
they never acknowledge their faults, 
they never admit they were in the wrong. 

You will never receive an apology from them, 
and you will never see their behavior change.

I think it was author Maya Angelou who said, "The first time someone shows you who they really are, believe them!"

The comments:

I think I overgrew. I feel too many things are my fault! And most of the time I can't say why. It's just that I heard "See what you made me do" so many times growing up.

Remember how that troll used that exact same comment as a threat? "...you're embarrassing yourself and making the SGI look good in comparison to what this sub has to offer. When I was in the physically in, mentally out stage of SGI membership, coming to this sub would often have the opposite effect and make me wonder if I should stay in the SGI. ...you're just embarrassing yourself...", from here

No no.. it’s not “see what you made me do”… it’s.. “see how it’s all about Me and My need to hurt you and make you feel guilty”..it’s how they CONTROL YOU! Remember…You don’t MAKE anyone DO anything!! They are responsible for their own actions!! Watch Rose’s fiancée on Titanic for example..

I know exactly what you mean, just now , yesterday,I had to cut ties completely with my own mother, an extremely narcissistic woman, she left me with no other choice... Believe me, you are not responsible for anybody's actions , please start to be more kind and loving towards yourself now, choose you... courage!

Funny how the SGI is full of so many raging narcissists 🤨