Hi! I'm a down to earth married Chinese American man looking for a lasting relationship with someone local. Life is great but I'm missing intimacy, ergo I'm here. My friends would describe me as smart and generous. My ex's would describe me as handsome and a chivalrous gentleman. I'll open doors for you, hold your purse and pull your chair. I have a good sense of humor and I'm a very supportive and respectful partner. I'm fit, attractive and financially stable. I'm a lover and I have a lot of love to give. I try very hard to please my partner because I care. Even sexually my goal is to please my partner and ensure she feels cared for. I'm honest and humble, qualities that don't bode well for personal ads. I may be shy but I'm wonderful once you get to know me, I promise!

My ideal woman is one who is looking for a lasting relationship with a married man. Someone looking for only one partner, and emotionally available. Someone who knows this is as much fun as it'd takes time and effort to maintain, as are all relationship. It'd be great if you were smart and can challenge me, as I would with you, making us better people. Let's grow together emotionally, and in terms of experiences. Looking to chat daily and occasional meetups. I especially appreciate someone great at communication like me, and caring and emotionally mature and know what they want. As such, I'm open to age and race, though 30-50 I assume would work best. I suppose I crave someone feminine who can match my masculine energies.

Besides raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens, I like hiking, bay area sports teams, exercise, learning new things, building things, fixing things. I like sushi, tacos, pizza, etc, though I try hard to resist as I try to eat healthy and stay lean. I am curious by nature, so I love learning and pushing my envelop, including but not limited to sexually. My mantra and personal philosophy would be carpe diem and YOLO, as cliche as they are.

Please send me a chat and let's get to know each other!