I am looking for a lover and friend - I’ll explain my situation and what I’m wanting and if it reverberates with you and let’s chat. I’m in no hurry. I know how good it can be - really how absolutely amazing these relationships can be and it’s worth the wait.

I tend to be a bit wordy so bear with me

I’m a married man With a full life friends and family and children. Still I crave that "other" relationship: that special friend for friendship, kindness, sex. I don't know why, but these types of relationships allow for an honest sharing of experiences and feelings and the sex can be fantastic. Perhaps it is because all there is to the relationship is the fun parts of life: walks, touching, kissing, dreaming, sharing and sex.

I enjoy having that person to chat with randomly during the day, talk on the phone, hold in my thoughts, I want to get together with you and bring joy to your life and have you bring joy to mine. Don’t want to change you or your life or your situation just want to beat up something extra special on the side. And I want that and I want that for me as well.

As far as the sex goes it should to be a combination of emotional and physical intimacy. I don't want to go into detail here as to what I enjoy and what I would like to do with you, but am happy to share that with you in chat later. I enjoy writing and am good at it. I ran an erotica blog for many years and had fun exciting women with my words. That is a story for another day. For now, just know I enjoy touching, kissing, licking, am experienced and have a dominant and wild side as well. But what we do in that arena depends on what we both enjoy. Also know, I would love to hear your fantasies and desires and I love creating situations that make you drip and scream.

I want to talk with you, hear about your life, be able to share things together that we may or may not share with others. This won’t be an every day kind of thing but I do want to bring joy to both of us.

If any of this strikes a cord with you, will start with a chat and see where it goes.

I am 62, active, outdoorsy, creative, playful, sensuous, and serious.