So a friendship-turned-fling went poorly since I was heavy on the friendship part and they pulled a 180, so I'm back! 21F Black NB femme here, 5 ft 7 and 135 pounds, looking for some cool friendships.

Not looking for sex, prioritizing actual close connections with people of any gender. Movie nights, video games, texting, all of the good vibes. I'm not a fan of times I've had a fwb that ended up vanishing, losing my last resource for sex and friendship in a 2-for-1 Mortal Kombat-esque damage on my feels, so I just went "The sex ruins it", and am looking for legitimate bonds.

Then I can text someone as much as I want without it being "you're getting weird" territory to someone I see 100% platonically, since no sex to muddle it. Hell. Yeah.

Looking for people I can do things like go on nice walks with, check out the beach or cool bites with, and vibe at each other's places in our free time. I miss having a good bond like that with someone and the pandemic def harshed that vibe with how many people moved yknow? I want people I can grow with, positively.

I love anything with water involved, (lakes/waterfronts/fountains,) long late night drives and shenanigans, drive-in movies, baking, noise music parties/edgy underground-ish type raves, horror (but I read the wikipedia pages to movies if I'm too queasy to last a whole film,) farmers markets, painting/drawing, checking in on the homeless in Berkeley, and hoarding a million candles and oils that, yes, you can smell all you want. I also love spiritual stuff, learning about superstitions, and ordering fast food en masse. Happy to share. :)

I hate hiking, any sort of -ism out there, people who bump into me no matter how much room is on the sidewalk to walk around me, peer pressure, false intentions, and coffee.

I've got a dark sense of humor but I can easily flip the switch between edgy humor and wholesome humor any time. We can watch a horror movie and brainstorm a million fucked up jokes about how the movie could end while insulting the characters on screen who trip or drop their weapon, or we can bake a fuckton of cookies and give them to your neighbors then sit around painting in the grass somewhere nice in my big ass sketchbook later. Duality of man, baby!

I don't smoke btw and I'm not a super heavy drinker BUT a bar buddy could be fun as hell just to finally get me the experience of the over 21 bar and club experience.

Anyways, I am an open book, and just looking for friends. Life's a little lonely.

Look through my post history before reaching out, but in a nutshell, message me:

• your name/what you wanna be called!

• your age!

• race, height and weight!

• your city, and if you drive! (distance can be a pain, for both people...

• And, what you'd like to do with a friend! Please nothing too generic like "get food and drive", tell me a restaurant you've been meaning to try, or even something that looks gross but you'd love a friend who would try it with you. Or your favorite views, drives, etc. Me? I wanna try Zacharys Pizza or some hot schwarma again, it's been ages. Aside from that, I love drives in the Skyline Hills near Chabot SAS Center.

• And to make sure you read this, put a movie you hate, or even dislike, as your header. Mine is 120 Days of Sodom. I saw it on a Disturbing Breakdowns video, and everything about it makes me hate it. And, a brief goal you're working on for yourself that you're motivated towards. For me? A clean room and self love.

Worth noting:

• I don't do kik or snapchat, I'll give you my number though if I'm interested in being friends!

• If you're gonna send a one liner like "Still looking?", (i usually am, its fine to just message with what my post asks for sure,) or "Hey" or anything low effort, you will be ignored. (Lonely chicks can be picky, too.)

• I prefer people closer in age, so I won't post something like "24 and under only" in case there's a rare 29 year old that amuses me, but, if I don't respond I'm just more focused on finding people in my generation with things in common.

• If you try to message me on some non-platonic vibes, I'm gonna block you immediately. Just wait until I have a horny spell like I do every few weeks, don't be horny, please.