Hey yall, just turned 21 and not a huge drinker but I am a people person who's been shacked up indoors for too long.

Looking for genuine friendship, but also not against flings.

And when I say flings, I don't mean one night stands, I mean people who genuinely just want consistent sex and, to an extent, connection, but are 100% unable to have an actual relationship and/or are uninterested.

Sound confusing? I get it.

By that, I mean its a "let's go to the beach and try a new restaurant and geek out over cool shit we have in common then break your bed at your place" and a "let's talk all day because we genuinely enjoy conversation but not assume too much" thing.

I need consistent sex, yeah, and/or someone to get out the house with whenever I can. Some of my best friendships and whatnot have been the types where I can just call them up whenever like "Wanna have sex or take a walk outside today?" and off we go.

Something that is like "Someone cares about me AND I can hang with them outside of plowing" but doesn't reach the point where it would be a relationship. Respectfully, I am not interested in that, for a lot of reasons. Figuring out what I want and need from someone first, but I guess if it reached that point I'd need 100% communication, honesty, and dating *painfully slowly*.

And I'll be honest, I'm on my period this week, and I'm probably gonna prioritize people who genuinely want to hang out or know eachother for time being. Anyone strictly sex based is not what I'm looking for. I'm just putting sex AND friendship here, so that I don't ward off people who need actual buddies with a thirst post, nor someone who's potentially compatible sexually, by saying eff off you know?

Anyways, what do I like?

I like:baking and cooking pastas and desserts for people whenever I get the chance, the beach, cool water fountains and rose gardens, people with Dual Monitors and rainbow keyboards who tell me all the tech shit I know nothing about, watercolor painting, horror flicks, hippie shit, showing people my favorite cheap-but-bountiful hole-in-the-wall food spots, flowers, spiritual/occult related stuff, Junji Ito, that TV Show "The Boys", Garth Ennis comics, hyperviolent dark comedy comic books like "I Hate Fairyland" or "Johnny the Homicidal Maniac", I like hot ladies, people who let me play with their hair, overly open people, and people who go to therapy. I like Its-Its ice cream sandwiches, telling stories, editing videos, high energy music, depressing story sharing, deep talks, stargazing, sitting directly in the sun with food, cool jewelry, public music, farmer's markets, and candles.

I hate: people who are walking towards me as I walk down the street and find a way to be directly in my way despite multiple times of moving from one side of the sidewalk to another, people who cough without covering their mouth or any form of trying not to shoot germs everywhere despite a year and counting of a pandemic, people who have their mask under their nose or no mask especially in businesses, people with no empathy (low empathy is one thing, but zero?) I hate sparkling water, getting stared at, and people who take me on dates/text me, just to talk only about themselves and conversation dies if I speak about myself, people that take their anger out on others, people who leave restrooms not washing their hands, ghosting/low effort people, HUGE crowds, people who don't communicate and let things simmer until they blow up later, pessimists, people who cant take no as a genuine answer, people who do nice things without asking but hold it over your head because of ulterior motives, and ableists/racists/sexists/anti-LGBT.

Anyways, me in a nutshell:

Black girl, long wavy braids down her back, hazel eyes, slim hourglass figure shape, 21, D cups, and a vibe.

Before you message me, please tell me:

- Your age and gender identity :D

- Your height and weight

- Race

- Things you want to do and how often you're available to hang :)

- and a pic of yourself, if you can!

Please don't message me:

- essays about what you wanna do to me sexually, unless its some hyper hilarious copypasta that i'd recognize immediately.... but even then, still probably don't.

And to tell you really read all of what I said above, feel free to list a niche pet peeve you have as your subject line as well. Thanks for reading and good luck searching as well. :)