Married for almost 25 years now. I havenāt had any sex with my wife for about 10 years (probably much longer since we had our second kid. Heās 16 yrs old now). We use separate rooms.
I know it isnāt just me in this situation. I have no other issues with her. Sheās great and I donāt want to break up.
I just want to have sex time to time but she genuinely hates sex. I discussed this with her about 4 years ago. She says I need to either give up or find someone elsewhere.
Now.. that sounds like she approved me to have sex somewhere else, but that does not make it easy. I am not going to say āhoney, Iāll be out to have sex this eveningā lol.
I tried a few sugar baby thing in the past. I want sex but at the same time, I definitely feel guilty. Realistically, I canāt find fwb. So the only option is to pay someone. I donāt know if I like that idea.. but if I canāt give up on sex, thatās the only option.
Really frustrated with my situation.
I wonder if thereās any woman in the similar situation(which Iād be really surprised) and looking for fwb.
Iām fit, 5ā11ā 165 lbs East Asian.
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