I'm going to cut to the chase & save you the task of reading my lengthy post. You don't have the time, seeing as how there are seemingly thousands of M4W posts here for you to choose from.
To put it bluntly:
I AM AN UNSPECTACULAR, HUSKY, BROAD, UNCOMPLICATED 27 YEAR OLD WHO RECENTLY GRADUATED AND IS WORKING AN UNGLAMOROUS OFFICE JOB TO PAY FOR TUTION/RENT. WHILE I LIVE IN MY UNCLES HERE IN TOWN, A HEAVY WORKLOAD HAS KEPT ME FROM ESTABLISHING ANY SORT OF SUSTAINED SOCIAL LIFE. I WORK, I LIFT HEAVY, VISIT FAMILY, AND TRY TO GET 8 HOURS EVERY NIGHT.
I AM NOT SOME APATHETIC, TATTOOED, CRYTO MILLIONAIRE, TONY STARK-TYPE THAT'S COMICALLY HUNG AND AGGRESSIVELY EAGER TO STROKE YOU INTO OBLIVION IN A LAVISH RENTED AIR BNB.
*This is my summation of the ideal guy some on Reddit are posting about.*
If you're still reading along, you may not value those surface-level characteristics as highly as others. I work when not in class and try to meet new people in between commitments. It's time-consuming and often unfruitful. I'm moving past that "simple jobs for a paycheck" phase and onto a career I'm passionate about. I have these long-developing goals that I sacrifice certain momentary luxuries for. That's not an excuse for being single but I've just now recently progressed to a point in my self-development that I'm ready to now make an effort to add someone to the mix.
I'm aware that any post longer than 3 paragraphs is basically considered an essay for the typical window shopper here, but I figure you should have a brief but clear understanding of where I'm coming from and why. The hope is that you are then better informed and thus more confident should you choose to indulge your curiosity.
My "stats"-
6'0
215 lbs.
Mexican/Dutch/German/Chinese
Have a car & am mobile
Drug, Drama, & Disease Free
Lift 5 times a week
(and can bench 275 if anyone's asking)
The title calls for an introvert but that's more in hopes of attracting a state of mind or a particular attitude. I'm in search of a person who is understanding of what it feels like to be overlooked or under appreciated. Not someone who solely identifies as these seemingly negative characteristics but is capable of empathizing with those feelings. I feel like it induces a humble and down-to-earth sensibility that is easy to get along with. That can be anyone with the capacity to have a deep connection with someone beyond a quick shallow judgement of them....if that makes sense.
Reach out. The risk v.s reward is completely in your favor.
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