Hi~

I’m a mid-20’s Asian female looking to explore meaningful real non-monogamous connections (not hookups) with a kind couple or female experienced and willing to guide me. I’d like to learn more about my sexuality and my interests in kink. It wasn’t until recently where I finally found my own place that I was able to establish a healthier and safer space of my own (mentally and physically) where I felt I could be authentically myself enough step out of the confined limits (outdated cultural/social beliefs I was forced to adhere to) to learn more about myself.

I want to learn more about kinkiness as I don’t have a lot of experience (vanilla lol) and would love to learn more about my preferences and desires in that regard. I believe there is no shame in wanting to know what we like to feel good :). Personally, I LOVE feeling good and believe everyone should have that right. 

About me:

Nursing student SF native (only a few months left till graduation! :D) getting her 2nd degree who loves cats.  I received my 1st degree from UC Berkeley. I’ve fostered over 15 cats in the past 3 years and am hooman to 2 cat babies. They are the loves of my life. I love dogs and animals in general too. Feeling safe in all ways (emotionally, physically, sexually, etc) is #1. My best friend would likely call me unhinged/silly, compassionate, and a major food/boba/tea lover (we are foodies who LOVE trying new places at least once a month- my favorite is comfort and Asian food). Oh- and I’m around 5 ‘4, and I’m more of a curvy meat on my bones body type (not skinny for sure), and would love to have my fellow partner (s) also be health conscious and perhaps we could learn how to be healthier together! :D Ps I’m a Cancer.

My interests/hobbies:

FOOD! TEA! Coffeeeee (I use sugar free stuff tho- for health lol), my fur babies I’m butler to, doggs!, spending time with my safe people, claw machines, Nature!! <3 , the ocean (I grew up falling asleep to the waves at night), painting, plants, yoga, volleyball, traveling with people, sauna and cold-plunging (6 minutes is my current record!), Playing card games / games (I like exploding kittens a lot lol), and movies :D. Hiking in nature is fun too. 

*I’m also deeply passionate about women’s health, mental health, and very interested in psychiatric healthcare. I love learning about attachment psychology, psychotherapy, and interpersonal / childhood developmental psychology and how it affects us as adults longitudinally- but also how we all hold the power to heal from past traumas. 

What I’m looking for:

People who are kind, respectful, considerate, responsible, strong communicators, experienced in kink, established, and Self-Aware. 

A few things I value in relationships:

Reciprocation, Strong communication, Vulnerability, Physical Touch (massages and cuddles pleaseeee), Words of Affirmation, Conflict/problem-solving, Intelligence, Emotional Maturity, Empathy, and Humor.

Feel free to dm me. Hope everyone stays safe and warm!