Life has def gotten busy and things are changing lately quite a bit on my end. Yes, I’m growing older like all the rest of us but I’m also growing wiser, hornier, and better balanced mentally and physically. A happy change for me is that I’m getting stronger in the gym lifting heavier lately, and I’m training my brain in discipline, resilience, perseverance and self-confidence. I love the results and the boost I’m getting from regular physical strength training! And I’m learning new things daily especially reading up on how to persevere through the many challenges and changes midlife throws at you.
Though one thing remains constant for me and that’s the passion and desire I have always had to experience more sexual fun with women. I miss being with women!
I’m an attractive looking, fit, bisexual woman. I’m enjoying being 43 tremendously and savoring my newfound strong libido, I’m confident in myself and my sexuality, and consider myself moderately experienced in bed with women. It’s been a while since I’ve been with one, however, and I miss the FF sexual fun and crave it passionately. Ugh! I need it in my life so much as of late, to be honest, because it’s sooo good when it works out. Goosebumps 👅
I’m fortunate to have a satisfying heterosexual relationship with a man (ethically non-monogamous with his consent and support), and im NOT looking for other males. Please respect my boundaries. They are non-negotiable.
Yes, I’m definitely strongly bisexually wired, which, aside from my feeling heterosexually satiated, leaves for me certain erotic/ romantic needs and desires unmet. These bisexual needs and desires I can only meet with other women when I do FF dating and sexual adventures on my own (separately from my heterosexual relationship).
And this is exactly what brings me here. I’m real horny for those FF experiences lately. Yes, I am thinking about women all the time lately 🫦
What gets me going is the feeling of being desired and having my desire reciprocated by her. I love experiencing the intensity and beauty of female desire in its quite unique and fascinating forms, and ideally I go for female partners who show their desire for me openly and unabashedly, who are not shy to ask, offer, receive, and take.
Having a previous FF sexual or romantic experience is not a must for me, while having actual desire for a woman is (and some level of confidence).
I don’t want to waste my time (nor hers) with women who’re sexually not into me, who don’t have chemistry or desire for me, and whose confidence level is so low that it prevents them from being free to explore and enjoy. I can support and nurture a budding desire, but I can’t be with women who’re not at least bisexual in their orientation or erotic curiosity because the opposite has resulted for me in disappointing lukewarm past relationships and hurt feelings. In a nutshell - I’m passionate for women and I’m looking for someone who is also passionate for us as an FF team.
And no, it’s not all about the sex. It’s important for me to find a like-minded bisexual and/or lesbian woman with whom I can build a relationship centered on mutual friendship as well as sexual satisfaction and reciprocal affection, intimacy and pleasure. I will follow consensual and respectful boundaries that we will both agree on, set, and honor.
I’m not shy in bed, I am rather forward sexually, also skilled and flirty. My partner doesn’t have to be skilled as long as she brings desire into it. Sometimes we learn on the go through open minded play and experimentation. When we have the right attitude and build trust, we can relax, enjoy and savor the fun.
Sexually, I can be described as a dominant energy or a switch, I can readily give and receive with a woman, I love to seduce her, to play out her fantasies as well as mine, to please her and to allow her to please me. I love to experiment and learn new things with partners I can trust. I’m not at all vanilla, but I’m not into extreme kinks. Two women joining me is a hot fantasy of mine that I’m still working on fulfilling.
As for compatibility - I engage only with DDF partners with clean STD results, prefer non drinkers or low alcohol use. I absolutely will verify, then can exchange pictures if we pass the verification process.
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