Hi there! I’m in an open marriage and I’m a Dad.

I am looking for a woman who is also in an open relationship or at least has some experience with that. I’m open to whatever form the connection may take. I am not a swinger type, more of an intentional connection type and would prefer if the desire for long term is there. I’m poly in that I’m open to romantic feelings if they develop over time. What is important for me to find is good vibes in person and good sexual/sensual compatibility. Connected and intentional sexual experiences are the ultimate goal regardless of the layers that we may add on top of that. Let me tell you a bit about me!

I’m 43, white, 6’1”, 190lbs. I workout and run regularly. I am kind of a cute nerd type in the face crossed with a surfer dude. I have neck length ashy/brown/blonde hair (still have all of it and it’s wavy/curly and thick), blue eyes, clean shaven and I wear glasses. Personality wise I’m quietly confident, laid back, stalwart, sweet, sensual and introverted.

I like nerdy stuff like board/video games and I also enjoy football (Niners!), hiking and occasionally going out to dance. I work as a lead software engineer in video games. I am a native of the Bay Area. I also enjoy weed so be friendly with it please. Generally open as well to limited use of party/psychedelic type drugs and enjoy experimenting with the right person (combine this with dancing?).

In the bedroom I have a natural, passionate and sensual way. I enjoy being the masculine one in general but I am not formally kinky or a dom type. I have a strong carnal desire, I’m sensually very intuitive and I enjoy causing pleasure. Good stamina and control. Also, I’ve had a vasectomy.

I like sweet and sensual women who are down to earth. Maybe you are on the shorter side too??

I live in San Jose and I am quite mobile and happy to drive almost anywhere within reason.

Thank you for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!