I am a 35-year-old black lady throwing herself out there to see if I might meet someone I click with. I am single, gainfully employed, financially stable, but also a bit restless. BDSM has always been something I have been interested in, but for a variety of reasons, I just never really got the chance to try.
I have always been a go-getter, always busy, and always heading towards the next thing in life---high school, college, grad school, fellowship, job, etc. This has also been exhausting in a way, always being on to the next thing....
It would be nice to let go of control to someone else I could trust and explore a more vulnerable side of myself. That is what I am hoping to find out of this arrangement. The idea of giving control to someone else, trusting someone else, being vulnerable to someone else---all sounds very alluring to me.
I have done some research on the BDSM community, but I admit I am not very familiar with a lot of the lingo and terminology. Maybe you might be more well-versed or very experienced since I am not lol. Happy to chat more about my interests.
As far as what I am looking for? I am open-minded as to race. Regarding age, I am seeking men about my age or older (33 and up) . You must be single---not interested in poly or couples. If we click, I am looking into a more committed arrangement and hopefully you are too. You care about taking care of yourself (I enjoy hiking and exercise regularly). Also, I'd strongly prefer someone taller than me---I am 5'7''. Looking for someone who values being discreet. I am looking to chat first and see if interests align and then eventually meet in-person in public.
No hard feelings if we don't vibe since you never know about chemistry with someone until you actually meet them.
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