I'm a looking for easy conversations that could potentially lead to friendship, which could potentially lead to the emotional connection I need from an AP. Are you looking for the same?

If we connect, you will have an man who cares. Good morning and how's-your-day texts daily. Occasional phone and video calls if possible. I'll give you birthday/valentines day gifts/flowers as I'm seeking romance, and I'll make it a point to remember important dates. I'd want to tell you how wonderful you are and send positivity your way. I'd want to help you with whatever you need help with because we'd be BFFs, essentially. I'd want to spend quality time with you, so I'll bend over backwards to align our schedules so we can meet for fun. And I'd want you to feel my orgasmic touch too.

I have black hair, brown eyes, smooth skin, 5'8" 160lbs. I have a 40 " chest and a 30" waist and a nice tight round ass. I am clean shaven and have a nice head of hair. I don't have tattoos or piercings. I'm educated from top schools and have more degrees than most people. I work in tech but my passion is real estate. I am equally comfortable being a t-shirt and jeans guy or getting dressed up in a suit, tie and my rolex. Or on days when I don't care, which is most days during covid with WFH, I just opt to wear a hoodie, jeans and a pair of Jordan 1s.

I like coffee over tea, android over iPhones. Pineapple belongs on pizza. Socks with sandals is a no. Hell, men shouldn't really wear sandals, in my opinion. Grammar and spelling are important. As for hobbies, I enjoy working out, mahjong, tennis, chess, and Rubik's cube. I'm a polyglot, in human languages and computer languages. I don't smoke or do drugs, though I do drink socially. I clean the lint trap every time. I vacuum, I mop, I wash dishes, I throw out the trash and I recycle religiously. I believe in climate change and I put money where my mouth is and drive an electric car. I make it a point to tip my servers well. Ultimately I try to leave the world better than I found it.

My ideal partner is someone also married with kids who's done this before. Excellent OPSEC and discretion. What I find attractive on a woman is maturity and humility. I'm weird I know, for a man to not be superficial. While a pretty face is nice, it's a dime a dozen. Easy going personality is rare especially in the context of reddit, and is something I'd treasure immensely. Our conversations should be flirty and not feel like an uphill climb. So please don't be that girl who gives one word answers, or think it's a competition to the front of your line. There is no line. It's not an interview. I would never make you feel like you're competing for my attention, and hopefully vice versa. Having the right attitude for affairs and being respectful are very basic qualities that are essential if we were to get anywhere especially long term. What I want is an emotional connection, appreciation, i.e. the foundation of a beautiful extramarital relationship, something missing from our marriage I'm sure. So, ultimately looking for a conversationalist that makes us feel good about ourselves and make our worlds brighter again. So, my ideal partner is one who is authentic, genuine, and has sincere intentions of finding a lasting AP. That to me, is beautiful and what I desire.

Please send me a chat. You have nothing to lose, but a world of possibilities to gain.