I'm non-binary but for all intents and purposes let's say that I'm male.

Lately, I've only wanted to have sex with men and that desire feels like it's getting stronger and stronger. I feel very little to no desire to have sex with women, in fact it can be a massive turn off for me. I'm starting to wonder then if sexual attraction equals sexuality and if I'm in fact gay.

In terms of romantic attraction though, I feel like I could form romantic relationships with the right person, regardless of gender. Aesthetic attraction is a bit more tricky though, I don't feel entirely attracted to men or women, I'm a lot more picky. I'm only aesthetically attracted to certain people, with my preference being those who are more androgynous in appearance.

I only seem aesthetically attracted to certain men or women, though it seems to be more so the latter. With guys, I'm so much more picky when it comes to appearance despite the fact that they're the only gender I want to have sex with.

Sorry if this post is a technical mess but I'm still really confused.