I’ve recently declared myself as demiromantic/sexual. (Yay for demirose). I’ve been this way for years and just found the defining characteristic to describe it.

The thing/s I can’t place my finger on is my sub sexuality. I’m pretty well seated as a gynosexual. Women are my thing full stop. It doesn’t matter if they have either genitalia. What does that mean for me? I have zero attraction towards men. Just the two sets of genitalia.

The other thing I can’t figure out is. When I do fall in love even though I’m male. I turn into an amalgamation of a lesbian in a male body. Weird to word it. But it’s the best way to describe it. Again what does that mean for me?

While it’s easier to say to potential interests that I’m Demirose. Explaining the other layers to my sexuality and romantic side is a big bar of clusterfucks.

Hopefully someone else is in the same boat or has insight.