a while ago i learnt that my abuser has reportedly done the same thing to her ex after me.

(for context i was in a long relationship with her for two years, in which i was subjected to constant emotional and physical abuse, the worst being coercive rape almost every time we had sex. )

Anyway, the same thing happened to the guy she was with right after me. i don’t know what to do - i’ve been told it would be a good idea to reach out, let him know he’s not alone etc. should i do this?? or will that cause more problems

i kind of wanted to leave this whole situation in the past but the fact that she’s still doing this stuff to people is so fucked up, and i feel like people need to be warned, i feel guilty for not saying anything.