I want to start this out by saying both of us are pre-E, pre-surgery trans women. I had been single for around a year and terribly touch starved. I met a girl at a friend's party and we hit it off initially, although i was alittle drunk. We made plans to meet again later that week at a local community center. We had teased eachother over text with anticipation for seeing eachother again.

We met at the community center a few days later, and she was introducing me to a couple of her friends, and meanwhile was also groping my crotch (without permission). I was uncomfortable bringing it up in public, and kind thought it was my fault after chatting so much over text, but it still made me very uncomfortable. Due to this affection I kind of felt obligated to reciptocate. So I invited her into my car, we drove to a vacant park and proceed to have concentual car sex. During said sex I offered to give oral. She proceeded to force me to gag on her until I almost threw up. But I just passed it off as rough play (i rarely stand up for myself).

After the event I felt so uncomfortable I broke it off with her. I described the event to someone else briefly and they said I was assaulted, and in response I was scared, confused, and felt guilty for being so trusting after having trust issues for such a long time.