Hey, my girlfriend and I used to work at this restaurant when we were 17-18 and we made some friends there. When we quit we hadn’t gone back for some time. We are on the verge of being homeless again so we had to bring our cats to the shelter so we decided to “cause chaos” (get drunk and have fun with our old co workers) so we got there and got extremely drunk, falling over. Having a great time forgetting about our problems lol, chatting with old co workers. Well one let’s call him D, he has worked there for about 17 years. Hes a “Lead” so technically manager I think? He’s in his 40s I believe. Well he had Nick names for me and I bonded with him. I figured he was a cool dude I could look up to. So my gf “a” and I were sitting outside with him. We were talking about us being upset about the cats and somehow we get on the topic of A looking young for her age. He agrees… We then poke fun a little at him and tell him we thought he was gay or bisexual when we first met him. He immediately got defensive and angry and said “fuck you” we were like well your Atleast an ali then right? And he says no. We laugh it off. Then he asks if we would all want to hook up sometime. Us being drunk laugh it off, considering we have never thought about him like that and thought it was also a joke. We go inside to talk to one of our other friends then Come back out and ask if he’s being serious. He said yes. We laugh again still unsure. He tells us to follow him to his place. So we do. We get to his house and takes off his clothes without a word and then tells us to take our clothes off. Reluctantly we do. He starts with me first. It hurt so bad. Then he moved to my girlfriend. He didn’t wear a condom. I was so drunk I wasn’t completely aware of the situation. We didn’t exactly say no but he was sober and it feels so wrong. I snook out of the bed while he was having intercourse with A. Put my clothes on and left the room to sit on the couch for a few minutes. Then I heard A say she wants to call it a night(she had said it a few times before that but I didn’t find out until after) and he said “No you don’t” so I walk into the room and grab her by the arm and say to D “she said she’s done”. We leave after that.