Obligatory sex or sex that we have out of obligation. There are a lot of ways we can get there. Still, it destroys a couple's sex life and our ability to feel desired and desirous because we're checking a box, the entire transaction versus communicating. I want you right. I'm like, get this over with.

Get in, get out. Check the box. I'm raising my hand. Good vulnerability. Good courage. And that's not fun. This is not fun sex. We don't have to play in that. We don't have sensuality in that. We don't have the desire for that. We're catering and pandering to the narrative. The big, bad narrative of we must have a certain amount of sex, a certain amount of times, and a particular style.

Our partner won't be satisfied. And now, I'm going to speak more heterosexually because this is the more common type of couple. But definitely, I have queer couples who have forced sex as well.