We've been together for 3 months and the sex is amazing. Though I don't think I've ever made her cum. She still says it feels amazing and she loves it which I'm happy about, but I want to help her get over the edge and finish.

I've never done a whole lot of clit stuff because she seemed to really love the fingering and I didn't want to go away from what worked. But last night I massaged her clit with my finger for ages and she seemed like she was in heaven.

She was squirming, struggling to breathe, legs were shaking, every sign that she was loving it. Then at one point I was massaging it very fast and she was saying oh fuck repeatedly and was squirming and her legs were shaking, i put my fingers in her pussy and it tightened up so much around them and then after 10 seconds of this she started breathing in exhaustion like she had just crossed the finish line of a marathon. I thought surely I made her cum.

That was before we even did PIV, and she loved that as well.

Afterwards I asked if she had finished and she still said no but she loved it. I've asked her what I can do to help her get there and she said she doesn't know.

What am I doing wrong here? Really want her to get maximum pleasure. Thank you.