Hi, I am (26F), almost 27. I’ve always enjoyed sex and had a high drive but I always notice the people I attract and have the sex with don’t match it?

It seems people agree to get access to me and I understand we are attracted to people but what I don’t understand is it ‘really’ seems that everyone is now having sex with literally anyone. This makes my mind boggle 😵‍💫.

I really don’t know how to understand how someone can have sex with me and not desire me or desire me in the first place before taking the action. I just always end up feeling used and abandoned so I am seeking advice for another way to see it.

I understand we all have trauma and issues; it’s also important to accept when you want intimacy too but back to the beginning, how do people have sex without considering these factors?

I could communicate my desires and ‘maybe’ get them met but I only get an hour then feel used and abandoned. I could get the time with someone but not my needs and wants met.

IDK why this is all confusing. I’ve had people use me then turn everything in my face that they just used me and I mean nothing to them but like why am I receiving this??