I 31 m 6’ 275 with a beer belly kinda above average dad bod am married to a 32f who’s plus sized. We have been together for 5 years and married almost 3 years. We have a 2 year old daughter and work opposite shifts so needless to say sex and really our relationship gets put on the back burner. We are working on making time for us as a couple. When we do have sex it’s great no real complaints in general except when it comes to positions. Being plus sized, my wife is insistent on only doing it from behind which I do love, however I’m into plus size women kinda why I married her. My internet history will back that up 😂. She is too uncomfortable and self conscious about how her body moves around, particularly her stomach since having a baby. She won’t get on top or even missionary. Which really sucks for someone like myself, I am a boob man, hers are perfect in my opinion not huge but not small by any means. I also love watching her stomach and her entire body move. In missionary I can be way more passionate eye contact, kissing, caressing, etc. she will occasionally get on top of me during foreplay which is my absolute favorite. I can’t get over how sexy she looks from my perspective when she’s on top of me how do I go about convincing/ boosting her confidence where she would consider trying new positions? I really wish she could see herself the way I do, there wouldn’t be anything she could do that wouldn’t turn me on in some way.

Any tips or thoughts are greatly appreciated. Any lingerie or outfits or something like a bodysuit for her midsection Any thoughts from women