ok so building tension by edging. meaning touching all areas while brushing by his hot areas but not engaging them building up his anticipation getting to the point right before orgasm and stopping . also the biggest mistake women make when giving head is 1 suck harder! you're not gonna break it & ' we beat the shit out of it all the time 🤕😂next use your hands 🙌🏽jerk the shaft with your head motion and from time to time pull completely off the dick and rotate your hands around the head in a " pepper grinder " motion then back into your mouth smoothly. and MOST IMPORTANTLY...focusing only on the "gawk gawk" 💦deep throat messy style ( which is amazing VISUALLY and should be included) but the most important part they miss is the actual physical details of the stimulation. so my advice is to understand that the most sensitive part of our hard dicks is right under the head of the dick, the hole, and the outer ridge of the top of the head soooo USE YOUR MF TONGUE!!!& with each and every time you move your head up and down while the head is in your mouth flick your tongue 👅👅💦around all them areas and pay attention to which he prefer by his reaction😈❤️ more tips available if wanted