I can't TELL you how to get your wife/girlfriend off by giving you detailed instructions of exactly what to do to her, this is more of a guide for you to be able to figure out what she likes and how she likes it. Right now you're probably thinking, lol, sure you will.....

First and foremost we can all agree that every woman is different and what works for one doesn't have to work for the next, I agree with that 100%.

This is also pretty much for committed couples/FWB's/regular sex partners, it's kind of tough to make this work with a new lover but more on that later.

No, this isn't from Penthouse forums and is a true recounting of how I stumbled on this magical method, don't care if it's believed but it is true and better yet, it works.

It was the summer I turned 18, I'll forever be grateful for the memories and lessons I learned from C. C was a friend of my mothers, she owned a cabin in the woods on a little stream about an hour away from where I lived at the time. It was a small and modest cabin but very nice overall. C offered me a some work there to put some cash in my pocket and I accepted, It was summer, no school and I was happy to make a few bucks.

C presented as a lesbian and had a partner who was also friends with my mom, they were always around as a couple and were cool. Don't hate me, remember I was only 18 at the time and I remember thinking to myself that C was very nice looking and what a shame she was gay(I was a kid, I didn't get it).

So anyway, I drive out with just C to the cabin, I was expecting her partner to be there too. I didn't think anything of it, my mind didn't work that way. I just wanted to make some money and get out of there.

We got there and we went right to work, there was a lot to do and I remember thinking I was going to be working my ass off and this wasn't gonna be done in a day. I skip all the boring work details and get to it.

We worked hard all day and weren't close to done, C suggested I stay over and we could get an early start the next day. I showered, ate and we sat by the fire pit for a couple hours. While sitting there talking I found out her and her partner had just split and I could tell she was bumming, I also remember thinking to myself again, too bad she's gay.

Nothing happened out of the ordinary after that and she went to her bedroom and I slept in another bedroom. The next day(Sunday) was uneventful except there was a little more joking going on and she was definitely being a lot more friendly with me but never anything overtly sexual, just like a cool aunt or something.

It was now getting late and C said time to go back to the city, she had work the next day but said she could use my help again next weekend if I was willing. Sure I said.

The next weekend approached and C asked me to go on Friday night this time so we could get an early start on Saturday, I agreed and off we went.

So here's where it started, we got there that night around 7 and settled in. We got the firepit going and C was having a beer and offered me one if I could "keep a secret" cause my mom would've been pissed. I'll take one and yes I can keep a secret, lol.

After a couple beers we're talking about her ex and I asked her how long she she had known she was gay? She says, "I was always attracted to women, I realized I was bisexual very early on". OMG, I thought, she's bisexual.

Another beer or two in and our convo was getting more risque and I summoned up the nerve to ask her when was the last time she'd been with a man? Years she said, years. I was getting hopeful but at that point she changed up the conversation and I figured I went too far and was being shut down.

The next part was a little more blurry but I remember we were walking into the cabin and kind of were going through the doorway at the same time and she just looked at me and kissed me, I was never so scared in all my life at that moment. We ended up in her bed and did what you all think we did. I just wasn't very experienced and I wasn't very good, I remember going to sleep afterwards thinking how bad I was and just kind of being embarrassed about it.

The next morning I woke up and got right outside working, embarrassed about the night before and hoping it didn't come up and it didn't. The day went like the others I had been there, work till 5 or so, shower, eat and light the firepit.

It took me 3 or 4 or beers before I could muster up the courage bring up the previous night and when I did, I felt like an idiot. I kind of just blurted out that I was sorry about last night and I know I sucked and rambled a little bit about how I didn't have any experience, blah, blah, blah.

She was very nice about it and told me don't worry about it, I'm young and I'll figure it out. I didn't believe her, but later that night she invited me into her room. I made a better showing for myself I felt although I still didn't leave that bed feeling like a champ. We worked most of the day and headed back home, I figured everything was done she needed me for and I wouldn't be going back.

When she dropped me off she said she wanted to paint the cabin, do I want to help next weekend? I think I said yes before she finished the sentence.

Friday rolled around and she picked me up and off we went, wash, rinse, repeat. Firepit, a few beers and off to bed. I remember that night, afterwards, thinking I really did myself proud, finally. The next nights firepit was lit and C says to me, do you feel better now? You seem like you're more comfortable with me, last night you did good.

I decided to push the envelope(with the help of a few beers), I asked her if she'd be willing to teach me how to satisfy a woman in every way? She says maybe and looked at me, let's go inside.....

We got in the bedroom and I immediately was all over her and she stops me and says, I thought you wanted me to show you some tricks? I stopped and she sits down and motions for me to sit down next to her, she asks, have you ever gone down on a girl? No, I said and I remember being real nervous right about then. More than that, I was downright scared to death.

She then turned the lights on and said, I'm a going to show you how to please me. Here's the magic part that put me on the path to giving pleasure. She layed down on the bed and told me to to lay down between here legs and get a clear, close up view and just watch. She says, every woman is different but if you can get a woman to do this for you then you should be able to rock her world exactly how she likes.

It goes like this, get your wife/SO to masturbate for you. Not the porn version for a show, tell her to do it exactly as she would if she were alone in her room and you weren't there. This is important and can be difficult because they sometimes feel the need to put on a show, she has to do it just like she always does alone, by herself.

Your job? You have to pay attention to every little detail. How does she begin? As she gets more excited how does she bring herself along, does she increase in speed? Does she insert her fingers? Watch exactly where and how she does it, this is your roadmap. As she gets more into it, what does she do? Absorb it all, as she is nearing orgasm pay special attention to every movement she makes. As she starts coming how does she finish herself off? Watch as she cums and everything she does including when she stops touching herself, a lot of women become very sensitive when they're finished coming.

Your job is now to recreate her masturbation session with your mouth, she showed you how and if paid attention you now have the knowledge to take her from start to finish. Now after you've mastered that you can try throwing in some different moves but make sure you talk to her about it, get her thoughts on what you do and if she has any suggestions to make it better. Communication is key. It's all about giving pleasure and if you treat her right in bed the chances are that she'll do almost anything to rock your world.

Happy dining ladies and gentlemen!

P.S. I ended up working at her cabin all summer, that was one of the best summers in my life, Thanks C!