I was visiting a friend who lived near her campus and sent her a message just basically showing her I was up that way.

She immediately FaceTimed me and asked me what I was going and said I should come party with them later which I had no intention of doing. After my visit with my friend didn’t go as planned I was heading back home when she sent me a text saying she hoped I would come so I decided why the hell not.

By the time I got there she was already drunk and acting wild with her friends but she introduced me to them and it was your typically college party. It got late and her boyfriend was blacked out, she asked me if I cared to drop them off. I helped get him in the backseat and she hopped up front, and immediately started flirting with me, telling me how happy she was that I came and touching my arm repetitively as she talked. When we got to her place I helped bring her boyfriend inside and we got him to a couch, as I was getting ready to head out she asked me if I just wanted to crash there and I was happy to not have to drive all the way back home.

She told me to come upstairs and she’d give me a blanket and some pillows but when we got to her room she closed and locked the door behind us and turned on music. I asked her where the bedding was and she hoped into her bed and said “you can just sleep here if you want”

She had never directly been sexual with me but the way she said it, I know what was about to happen. I didn’t say a word as I climbed into the bed and she climbed on top of me. I went to visit her a few more times, once even bringing a friend with me before she eventually stopped hitting me up.

Years later, I just found out she is now marrying that same guy and I can’t help but wonder how many times she must have cheated on him without him knowing.