After posting about a new toy that I got, I got a lot of interested messages, from both men and women. Men who had pics of women they wanted me to tribute, and women who had pictures of themselves, or various tasks they wanted me to do with the toy. And damn was it fun at first, but it kinda turned into a lot. For awhile at one point I was always confused why women didn’t like being asked for pictures (not talking about like talking to a random woman irl but like someone who posts on Reddit and stuff like that) because I thought it was complimentary, obviously I learned that was not the case pretty quickly as I matured, but never really felt it.

After getting messages from a couple of women, one who asked for a few specific tributes and was sexting along with me, and then left right before finishing, and another who got extremely demanding with the pictures and videos she wanted, I really get now how it can be kinda exhausting. Sure, it’s hot as fuck, and feels good if you’re in the right mood for it, but it definitely feels a bit dehumanizing. Maybe not quite the right mood for this sub but just thought it was an interesting bit of reflection. Still going to do pics like that sometimes, just gotta be a bit more willing to set boundaries.