I posted the below before, but it was in a wrong subreddit and got removed, so from now on I will post updates only on this subreddit

Sexgame - Wife is finding her dom-side, whilst I am not getting the sex I thought.

So my wife and I started a sex game

I always thought we were a bit of a 'switch' couple but it starts to look like she likes to be more on the control end.

Here are the rules of the game we play.

- One gives the other potential 4-6 challenges, from which they then choose 1.

This can be anything sex related, as long as we agree we both stand a chance in winning. Whomever wins the challenge gets 1 point.

- First who will get to 10 points wins.

We take turns in giving each other these challenges.

What is at stake?

- The winner will be 100% in control of all sex for a full month. Although in my case we agreed to limit it to 4 days per week.

(Based on the game so far, I am honestly starting to fear it will be great fun for her if she wins, but perhaps less for me...)

How it is going

At the moment it is 4-0 for her, and I am now afraid she will win. Whilst I honestly was expecting to win before. Below I share what has happened so far

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The first 4 challenges

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Challenge 1

The first day we play this,

My challenge to her:

- so I had quite some vanilla ones lined up, including 'first to orgasm wins' and 'first to orgasm loses'

She went with 'first to orgasm wins'

The only condition that she added was, that she decided positions and that the first time I was close, I needed to tell her. That was all. This sounded fair to me, as I normally take longer.

How it went

We started in doggy-style a bit later she switched to reverse cowgirl and cowgirl.

She said she might be close to orgasm soon, and let out a moan, which triggered me to say I was close. She changed her movement to reduce friction and at the same time masturbated herself whilst still slowy riding me. She came, hopped off and claimed the win. Nothing for me to argue really

1-0, all seemed reasonable fair though.

Challenge 2

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Her challenge to me,

I needed to make her orgasm in 8 minutes by licking her pussy.

Quite straightforward

How it went

She was ready, we put on the timer and I started licking. Around 20 seconds in she shouted 'stop!' Lets pause, for a second, I need to go to the toilet first. When she came back she instantly put on the timer and laid down

'I am sorry she said non-sarcasticly, I did not clean properly.' Whilst I was thrown of by this, and am certainly not the biggest fan, I did my best to go trough it anyway.

She kept telling me she did not enjoy what I did and even slapped me in the face once. This threw me even more of my game and stunned be for a second. I could not get it done (on time)

This is by the way the first time ever she did such a thing. She did not like, the not cleaning herself part. I am quite confident this is true. But she really wanted to win.

2-0 A bit annoying but ok.

Challenge 3

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My challenge to her

She picked the following 'She needed to make me cum within 60 minutes tongue and mouth only.'

This Seemed like a challenge because I last long, but perhaps doable because it was a while now and I was quite horny from the previous 2 days before as well.

How it went

Started off okay, she wounded me up before we started. She did this for a much longer time than normal. Eventually she started the restricted BJ and put on the timer. I guess we were around 40-45 minutes in when she realised she needed to do more to win.

So, she made it a 69-position. Whilst I protested, she said there was no rule against it and she started masturbating herself and urged me to lick. I complied and she came with under 3 minutes to go on the timer. I seemed fine. She seemed to have used up her tricks

She went on to say 'Well at least I just came' she said and you wont'

My response 'There is nothing that you can do to make me orgasm in the last few minutes'

This was perceived by her as 'the original rules dont apply' She went crazy on sucking my penis, bit it a couple of times quite hard, slapped it, jerked me off with her hands whilst doing this and asking a couple of times how her pussy felt in my face..

The end-result was straight from a hollywood movie, as the timer was ticking down I could not hold it anymore... I started to cum.. it most have been around 5 seconds before the end,.. because when I heard the timer, I was still cummnig.

I claimed that she broke the rules. But according to her what I said allowed her to do that. I learned to say nothing in future sessions.

3-0 I still don't think it was really fair.

Due to work and stuff we didn't play for around 2 weeks, but we will now have plenty of time in the next weeks. The day before yesterday we started again

Challenge 4

My challenge to her again (It was her turn, but she asked me to go again allowing her two in a row after)

- I gave her five challenges, four were focused on me (1. Do something sexual until I give up (which I will not lose but she never picks it) 2-3 are something like make me cum by doing x in y time, 4. Give me a BJ for 90 minutes, but prevent me from orgasm (we thouhgt it was fair because it has been 2 weeks since I came!). However she did convince me to add one with focus on her. So I added what I thought would be an easy one for me. Sit on my face but don't come for at least 20 minutes.

That was the one she took

How it went

Normally when she sits on my face, I make her orgasm within 10 minutes, if she tries to hold back perhaps 12,..14 but she would never make it to 20. Amazingly she choose it.

We set the timer for 21 minutes (1 minute, to position herself properly), but instead of sitting on my face like normal, when I would lick her pussy to make her cum, she started by positioning herself in such a way that my tongue could not get to or in her pussy. Only my nose a little bit.

She looked down on me she said 'Ha, I am going to win this again. Do you see what I am doing? (whilst touching her nipples, and squeezing her boobs and also later when starting to masturbate) What are you saying I can not hear you? ...Why are breathing so weirdly. I am masturbating myself do you see that, oh, I better stop for a moment....you are not having orgasm today but I am..).

There really was not much that I could do, I don't know how I fell for this.

I don't know the exact time, but I guess with about 6 minutes to go she went from an upright position to laying down, putting the back of her head on my rock hard dick but doing nothing else. All I could do was lick her ass, or just look at her masturbating straight on top of me. When the alarm for the 21 minutes went off she intensified her masturbation and came reasonable quickly on my face.

She kept laying for a bit, then sat op straight (still on my face), looked at my rock hard penis and decide to slap it, stroke it, slap it for (according to her) 10 minutes. I was not allowed to cum, because she wanted to use my hornyness for the next day (I might have made the mistake of saying a couple of times that it was not fair that she was having an orgasm again and that I was not). She concluded with: 'that was fun I might do that again. I will add that as a challenge tomorrow.

'Well I will just not pick that from now' was my response. She replied 'I will make sure that all the other options are also very fucked up then. I win if I only win my own challenges by now'.

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and that is where we are...

Feel free to join in (digitally)

Especially my wife would love to get some good ideas from any of you for challenges she can give me. So if you have any ideas, feel free to share them here.