I realize that almost everyone will think that having that many partners is way too many, unless you are a sex worker or have some sort of sex addiction. Sooo, yes, as a young woman, I was with around 14 guys and two other girls before I met my husband, meeting them in clubs or the gym, and frankly I was looking to have more causal relationships rather than finding a serious one. I maintained this mindset even after I met my husband to be, racking up a few more up until our wedding, but then resolved to be faithful to my vows. Unfortunately our relationship deteriorated as my husband fought alcohol and gambling addictions, and after seven years of neglect I welcomed my flirtatious nature back, and had affairs with two guys (separately 😀) from my husband’s softball team, a coworker, one of my ex boyfriends, and multiple threesomes with two guys from my gym,. Yeah, admittedly slutty behavior. That adds up to about 25 partners, which means I’ve been with close to 75 more in the 20 years since my divorce. Crazy, right? I have met partners at the beach, at the gym, even at the food store.
I’ve had sex with men (and a few women) that I meet on vacation, most memorably a bi couple that iI met on a cruise. I have an Ashley Madison account that I have a love/hate relationship with, and met a few guys on there, as well as PoF and Tinder accounts. I’ve found that those guys expect at least a blowjob just for showing up( and most of them got one😘). I have a steady BF that functions as a plus one for social occasions and to add a bit of normalcy to my life, but he also is very happy to share me with other men and couples that we meet either online or in real life. In fact he spends more time looking for partners for me than I do, even arranging a sexy group party for my birthday last July, and I’ve talked about the relationship I’ve had with my masseur and his partner. And yes, a Redditor or three. Each time I undo someone’s belt and unzip his jeans is like a present for me, in fact my hands are shaking just thinking about my next time. Normal? No. Exciting and fun? Absolutely! I’ve gone as long as two months or so without sex, and also have had 8 partners in a weekend. Yes, I do practice safe sex with new people, but can’t wait until we develop a level of trust that allows for unprotected sessions. So that’s it! Welcome to my world. edit: I didn't include blowjob only "dates" in the total. ;) Don't ask, even I think that number is shocking high.