We met on tinder. She was not the usual profile, "wholesome, kinda nerdy, vanilla" and her pictures matched. Sandy blond, kind, pretty eyes but no revealing pictures, almost library study girl vibes, not an immediate swipe. So why did I swipe right and start a chat well, honestly I'd had so much luck I needed to slow down maybe this would help. We chatted and agreed to meet up at a cafe to see if there was chemistry. This was Traditional, take it slow date type of talk. Flirting but she was not willing to get too sexual, she definitely didn't want just a hookup. So after two hours genuinely enjoying each others conversation I asked what her deal was, she was not buying into the respectful advances and called me out shutting me down on any overt flirts, saying "I'm not into playing games if this is just a fling for me". Finally she said something that I asked deeper about, she'd been in a long contoling relationship and was trying to rebuild trust in men hence she had posted the lamest profile she could without being outright unattractive.

In person she had a pretty smile, tall thin frame with a rather large toned ass and strong thighs. B cups were not on display as she was wearing a loose t shirt kinda off the shoulder and track shorts. It was hot as hell out so I kinda gave it a pass.

So I said she should talk to me about anything she wants to build up trust. She asked about my recent dating history, I said I had been "casually dating after a long term breakup". So you are rebound banging anyone you find?" She blurted out.

Uhm, well, yeah since you want to trust me, I'll answer honestly.

How many girls are you talking to in the apps right now?

3

Including me?

No, 4 including you.

She almost stood up and walked away.

How many men are honest with you that you are talking to on the app?

She looked back.

Probably none.

And how many are you talking to?

She rolled her eyes, you can't ask a girl how many!

I said, so it's more than just me, isn't it.

She blushed.

I looked in straight in the eye and put my hand on hers and said "Honesty is a two way street, the faster we go down this street of honesty the more passionate the relationship."

Her: 3 she said but you are the first to actually get in my head.

Me: And how many have gotten into your bed.

She looked taken aback.

Me: Honesty! I whispered.

1. She turned red. And the third was just an asshole.

Me: So fuck me right? I'm the one meeting you in a cafe for two hours and getting to know you and putting in work while you have two guys that will come over in a moment to give you pleasure and never have to pay a bill? I like you, don't stop doing what you are doing, just tell me what you want.

I want a Guy to take it slow. Sex is not really what I get off to. In fact I have not had an honest orgasm with either of them. Like I enjoy it, I moan, I love seeing and feeling their pleasure but they don't really make me have like a real orgasm. I don't know how to explain it. Like, my body kinda will feel good and they finish and we cuddle but after I'm really horny and I need to finish on my own later.

Do they know what you like, what you want, do they listen to your words or just follow their instincts?

Instincts, that's a good way to put it. I get caught up in it, it feels good but...

Do you know what you want?

She looked surprised and shrugged away. Ha, good question.

Honesty, remember. I said calmly sitting back in my chair. Maybe the cafe isn't the right place to have this conversation.

My place.

You sure?

Yes, but you have to promise to listen and talk .

Ok.

And stop when I say so and don't go any further.

Absolutely. But you have to commit to talking too, you have to give me feedback both verbal and (I took her hand on her thigh) physical.

It took a bit to get to her place as we took separate cars. It was hot and her apartment was not well air conditioned.

We sat on her couch. We slowly increased the excitement, taking it very slowly. We practiced saying no, then yes, slowly graduated from a light kiss. My hand on her inner knee, she said no that's far enough.

Ok I smiled, how about this knee, same thing. I put my hand on her other knee, looking her in the eyes and gently pushing her legs apart.

She took a deep breath. But her lip and said yes.

I moved my hand and inch up her thigh. Yes, she whispered. Another inch.

She looked at me but didn't say anything.

I'll take that as a physical yes, I whispered as I leaned in for another kiss.

She whimpered as we kissed and I squeezed her thigh.

She reached for my button..

No. I said. Holding her hand from unbuttonning my pants.

She looked surprised and tried to keep going.

It's a two way street , I said as I stopped her again. We are building trust here.

Her: But.. I want...

Me: the others don't say no do they?

Her: surprised confused looking. No they don't.

Me: you get what you want don't you.

Her: I never thought of it that way.

Is this what you want, I took her hand and put it on my crotch so she could feel my excitement.

Her: biting her lip. Yes.

Me: no. I took her hand away and put it in my thigh as far as I'd gotten on her spread legs.

Honesty. I whispered and looked her in the eye. "And fairness" as leaned into a kiss I placed my hand on her hot crotch.

She grabbed back at my erection.

Don't move you hand. Just hold me still in your hand. I whispered and gently squeezed her crotch, our tongues slickly teasing each other. Feeling every breath she took. She spread her legs and pushed into my hand.

I adjusted my position so my cock could freely rest pointing down my thigh bulging through my pants.

She went for the button again. I said no.

Please? She looked beggingly.

I smiled. You really want it dont you?

Yes. She rubbed the length of it. I want it badly she whispered.

You will get it. I took her hand, when the time is right. I leaned in for a kiss taking her hand off my throbbing Cock.

I pushed her back. Looked her in the eyes. Use your words what are you feeling right now? I asked as I groped her hot crotch.

Horny. She whispered. I'm so horny.

Are you going to have an orgasm.

She paused.

Not yet, right?

She shook her head "no".

Of course not. I not I smiled, we have a long way to go to get you wet enough to take me.

She blushed, biting her lip.

We are going to focus on you. I want to identify all of your most sensitive erogenous zones. Can we do that.

She smiled and nodded.

I need you to say yes and no. Or moan and pull away wherever you are comfortable or uncomfortable.

I took my hand off her crotch and put my finger to her lips.

Yes, or no?

Yes. I ran myfinger over her lips.

Yes or no. I put my hand on her still clothed breast.

Yes!

With a squeeze I pulled away and put my finger on her neck below her ear and slowly drew a line down her neck.

I'm going to keep going over your clothes until you say no or stop .

I traced down her neck, Down the center of her chest, finger on her skin, as far down as her shirt would let me pull, between her breasts. She swallowed hard as I cupped her other breast.

I want you her hand slid back to my throbbing cock.

You can't have me.

She looked at me frustrated.

Yet.

We are learning to communicate.

"Then it's my turn" she said as she squeezed my cock.

She slid forward getting on her knees in front of me.

Slow, I whispered wit a smile.

Whatever you do to me I get to do to you, deal?

Deal she smiled unbuttonning my pants and pulling them down.

My spung up throbbing into a stiff pole. She giggled and grabbed it in her hand.

Slow!

Yes, master, she smiled as she stroked me slowly down until a droplet of precum started to glisten . Slowly up and down she stroked firmly gripping the base of my shaft. I was hard as a rock.

She looked me in the eyes as she took me into her mouth slowly. I let out a moan. And she giggled, " mmmm, she moaned and made a sucking sound" I love cock, she said staring at it opening her mouth and taking me deep still stroking the base of my cock.

Oh fuck baby. Stop. I took her by the head.

I said stop!

But I want you cock she begged, not looking me in the eye, just fixated on my cock.

Fairness is, both of us getting what we want.

Want do you want, you don't want me to suck your cock? She tried to suck again, and I resisted.

Your pussy. Lay on the floor, take off your pants and show me your pussy.

Yes master.

She rolled back pulling her pants off. I slid them all the way up and tossed them to the side.

Spread your legs, show me how wet you are.

She looked at me as her fingers slid into her cunt disappearingbwith ease, a subtle slurping sound of her pussy taking her finger.

I spot on my cock and stroked watching her touch herself.

Show my cock what it needs to do to you.

She spread her legs wide and spread her pussy open with one hand as she fingered herself deeply with her other hand.

Fuck my cock is so hard for your wet pussy right now I groan.

She put on a show, spitting on her fingers, rubbing her clit then stuffing her fingers deeply into her cunt. She sat up leaning back on one hand stuffing her cunt with her fingers as I stoked my cock inches from her face.

I can stroke all night baby, doesn't it feel good.

Uh huh she moaned.

"Oh God", her breath quickened, "oh God", her face contorted like she was going to cum. She was fingering herself hard. Oh God. Oh God she kept going as I stroked matching her rhythm. She began to lose control.

As she began to cum, I said Let me fuck you. She laid back and I sink my cock deep into her her fingers still playing with her clit, she looked at me as I pounded into her spasming cunt. Her body lost control and I eased up feeling her sunt squeezing around me. Her body quivering she pulled me in close.

I was rock hard so close to cumming. She stopped me. And gently nibbled my ear, panting hard, pulling me in close.

I, I , oh my God, I needed that.

Good girl. That was beautiful. We kissed as I slowly pulled out then back in. She moaned softly. Her cunt relaxing around my still hard cock.

She looked me in the eyes. I want your cum in me.

We locked eyes and I thrusted deep, picking up the pace, slamming my heavy balls onto her sloppy asshole feeling her body softly taking my hard cock. Building up, we moaned together. She whimpered softly fuck me fuck me until I dropped a load deep inside her. We kissed deeply as my cock continued to throb deep inside of her. She bucked her hips against my still thick cock slick with cum and her body rose to another quick finishing orgasm.

I laid on top of her my cock still deep inside her as we caught our breath.

"Honesty and fairness", I whispered.

I needed that she whispered back. Fuck, she whispered, I needed someone to tell me no. To take some control and stop me from taking what I want.

You love cock.

She giggled. I fucking do, but that's embarrassing, I should not have said that out loud.

We were honest and enjoyed an openly dating relationship for quite a while.