About a year ago I started working from home. I quickly started feeling a bit isolated at home all day. I felt like I needed to come up with reasons to get out of the house more often. I started going back to the local bouldering gym a few times a week again after a pandemic hiatus and started going for hikes again. I found myself wishing for someone to hike and boulder with.

I’m married but we’ve always had a don’t ask and don’ t bring it home understanding. We expect each other to be discrete if we end up having outside adventures. This has resulted in a few adventures while on work trips (one unforgettable adventure with a couple I met from Reddit while on a work trip, but that’s another story) I started thinking it would be great to have a regular friend to meet up with.

I believe in being able to focus on what I want to find in the world and have it materialize through my own work and desire. I’ve had this happen in so many ways through life now. I don’t know how it happens but it does. I got this idea to get on Tinder but just post pictures of my pets and see who I could get to engage in conversation with me. I surprisingly matched with several people. I have always been good at keeping a conversation going. I started flirting and told my matches my situation and my thoughts.

I matched with a really cute women, about 15 years younger than me. She is early 30s and I’m mid 40s. She’s a widow and raising her child and a niece on her own while living with her grandparents. She’s a nurse at a hospital very near my house. We hit it off over a mutual love of weed and Seth Rogan. She actually thinks I look a bit like him.

I told her my situation and made a joke that I needed to find a friend who had their own place for me to visit since I couldn’t bring her home. She said that she can’t invite people to her place because she’s never alone there. I made a joke about us needing to pretend to be teenagers then and just have lots of car sex. I actually expected her to respond feeling the same way I feel about car play. It sounds hot but I’ve always ended up feeling too nervous about getting caught to make it much fun. Instead her response was that she really loved car play and was down for it .

We met for coffee and found we had a great vibe in person. We ended up making out against my truck in the Starbucks parking lot.

We started texting each other when we knew we would have a free hour or two. She has an erratic schedule and has to get home to spell the grandparents from childcare a lot. We started meeting at the end of a shift before she had to head home. Picking her up from the hospital, we’ll spark a joint and go for a drive until we find someplace secluded to park.

At first I was nervous af about being caught but she was fearless and really into it. She said we needed to work through my fears as she eagerly pulled my pants off in the backseat of my truck and took me soft and nervous into her mouth. I usually find it hard to cum from oral but omg the intensity of the moment brought me close really quickly and I had to beg her to slow down so I didn’t lose it. The first few times I lost it really fast right after getting me hard enough for her to grab it and sit down on it in my lap. I made sure she was satisfied orally before leaving.

This has been happening off an on for almost a year now. Sometimes it’s weeks between finding a common hole in our schedules and she has to cancel last minute a lot but the times it happens have made all the cancels worth it!

Last month I had some time alone to myself for a week and we were able to meet up late one evening. We decided to go for a drive up a local canyon and find someplace dark to park. We opened the back of my truck and laid in the bed looking at the stars and passing a joint. Soon we were naked and 69ing intensely in the moonlight. Suddenly headlights came into view on the secluded dirt road we were tucked off of the side of. The car stopped right in front of us and two guys got out and started walking toward the car. We weren’t sure what to do so I just yelled “hey we are all good here, just me and my girlfriend hanging out” The two guys surprisingly just looked into the dark at the truck and said “oh, ok cool man” and got in their car and drove off down the road. It was kind of strange. I thought I’d lost my anxiety about being caught but that brought it back up a bit lol.

We were supposed to meet up today and go for a hike this morning and find a place to wander off and hang a hammock. She got called in to work so now I’m just on Reddit entertaining myself and wishing for conversation with women who might be bored and alone like me today.

Would love a voice chat friend if you’re out there . DM me. If you like this post let me know or feel free to AMA in comments and I’ll answer. Just here working from and bored and horny today :)