Hi, excuse my ignorance, my current GF complains when I make her orgasm during oral that it takes forever for her to unclench so we can start with penetration (maybe 5 minutes, which isn't forever) so she hates when I start by going down on her - and while I want to respect her desires, its kind of my go-to to get the "engine started" so to speak. My question is, does it usually take a while after orgasm to relax? She does climax pretty hard, harder then anyone else I've been with (which is a massive turn on) but I've never had a problem going straight to sex afterwards with any of my previous partners - which is maybe messing with my head a little, that maybe I wasn't as good at giving head as I thought.