It’s honestly a classic tale: Since we started having sex she would have these instances where she would feel like she needed to pee mid “bang,” she would go pee and we would get back into it and afterwards she would talk about still having the feeling depending on the angle. I have history with an active squirter and had to avoid it depending on where we were so it kind of started to click. I have also fingered her (my wife) in the same sorts of ways that would induce squirting and she had the same “needing to pee” feeling, she would go pee and still have the feeling afterwards.

We are fairly experimental but I think she’s a little uncomfortable with the idea and peeing isn’t something sexy for her. She may believe I’m joking when I say it’s something that would turn me on and the shower is already our de facto “lab” for messy things like this. I want to make sure she’s comfortable and create a positive environment that is encouraging.

I guess my question is what’s the best way to walk her into it? I know female ejaculate comes out of the urethra so it’s the same feeling, but I don’t think it’s as easy as just telling her to “let it go” as it not necessarily a sexy feeling for her yet.