I need help/opinions please!

So my husband and I have been together for 6 years. I need opinions on if I'm just overreacting or not and some advice.

So for me when it comes to attraction I don't get attracted by looks, I'm 100% all about personality. However my husband gets attracted by looks. He says that when we're watching tv or just on a walk that if he saw someone attractive he'd want to tell me, like just in casual conversation, awh she's pretty.

However I struggle with this as it takes me a lot to find someone physically attractive and I'm a very jealous gal. If he said that to me I would get a physically sick feeling in my stomach. I so wish I didn't and I'm glad he feels comfortable enough to do this. I'm trying to be more understanding and we had a really good chat about it last night but I'm wanting to find a middle ground so that I don't feel like my boundaries are being crossed but also that my husband doesn't feel like he has to watch what he saying around me.

Another issue I have (if anyones still with me, thank you 😂) is with 🌽 I hate when he watches it. And since we spoke about a few years ago hes respected me and hasn't watched it again however part of me feels controlling. I just HATE the thought of him getting sexual gratification or even looking at other woman in a sexual nature. That really really plays on mind. I'm a bit of a granny when it comes to stuff like this😂 When we spoke about this o told him what 🌽 I watched when I was single and he said let's try that then, but it's gay male couples that I used to watch and I feel like it'd kill the mood

A, for me because I don't even think I'll like that anymore. I've changed a lot over the years and don't find people attractive by looks anymore. Like at all

B, I think he'll just not be into it at all. I think I'd like it if he was, like seeing him get like that over man but I just don't know.