I'm married, but my wife has had more sexual experience than me before us, I had very little. She talks with me about her previous experiences, and seem to expect me to share similarly. However, I feel that I could not possibly share experiences that would be of interest or acceptable. While I don't want to seem reserved, I expect negative reactions to my stories. She would also like me to talk dirty and be more dominating, and similarly here I don't know how to finding the right level of naughty or forceful. I think my fear of being seen as gross or as a rapist makes me basically very uninteresting as a sexual partner. It could be related to confidence, but mostly I just don't know how to express myself right. I have lots of libido, she somewhat less, she needs me to do these things to increase her mood. I feel like I know how to behave in a workplace, but not in bed. This probably takes work. Where or how can I seek help?