I have a fantasy of my wife being with other men. We're both 30 and have been together since we were 19. 2 months ago we paid for a guy (25 year old, muscular and Spanish) to erotically massage her in the spare bedroom. He did so and gave her 3 orgasms. He stayed in his underwear and my wife didn't touch him at all back. Afterwards, we had the most amazing sex and both orgasmed twice. We've arranged for him to come again in 3 weeks time and said that this time my wife will be more actively involved and touch him back. My wife said she'd like to make him cum. The thought of them having sex is such a huge turn on although I doubt things will go that far. We have some experience of couple swapping with some friends last year but we stopped as we didn't want it to ruin our friendship.

Hearing my wife tell me about her being with another man drives me wild. Is this normal? Do other people feel this way? Does anyone have any advice or a similar experience / story to share? Thanks!