Hi! I (23f) and my boyfriend (24m) have been together for about 4 months now. The sex is always good but he hardly ever finishes and lately it’s gotten worse. When we first starting having sex he would only finish once and the morning after we would have sex again and he wouldn’t and I understood that. He has come over to my house all week this week and we usually have sex 2 or 3 times with breaks in between and then we go to sleep, wake up and have sex again. We are both very into it but like I said he hardly every finishes. This week he has only finished 2 times. I know he feels bad and we’ve talked about it but I don’t know what to do? I feel really insecure because he use to tell me how much sex he had in HS and how big his loads were and he never had a issue. I know it was years ago, but still. We’ve changed things up, we go for 45 minutes every time, I try to make sure he knows he’s doing a good job. I just feel like I’m not doing good enough or I’m not attractive to him. Is there anything I can do to help. Please don’t think I’m mad,dissatisfied, or shaming him. I just want advice so we can both be happy and not both feel bad.