So, for awhile now my husband has hinted toward doing an0l. I’m not a huge fan of it on myself. I saw in his search history awhile ago like pegging and stuff like that but within the last few months he keeps “wanting” me to do an0l on him. He kept saying it’s for me to do and explore like he’s doing it for me bc he knows I’m also into women but like it’s not the same. He now keeps asking everytime we have sex and I hate it. Just lastnight, he asked to fuck and I was like no, I don’t feel like it ( it was 2am and I had to be up at 5am) but I can help you. He wanted me to jerk him & “f” him in the A. After that I went to bed and I woke up just feeling off towards him. Idk what to do or if this feeling will go away. I just feel odd. I’m happy he’s shared like kink type stuff with me and wants to “make our relationship more fun” but I really don’t like doing that to him. I don’t want him to get mad at me for not wanting to but I really don’t want to engage in sex at all with him now. Also, he isn’t good at giving O either. Oral sucks, sex kind of sucks, I have to have vibrators to get off. He wants to go down on me but it doesn’t even feel good. I love him & he’s so kind. He helps out a lot, loves our kids & would do anything for anyone but sex & all that stuff sucks… any advice? We’ve talked about him not doing stuff properly and what feels good and what doesn’t but he just doesn’t get it. Maybe he watches too much porn? Like anal ahego and just expects me to be a pro porn star? Please send advice or something?! I’m lost. Tia