OK, so I'm meeting this woman and she seems quite enamoured with it, she's mentioned how she wants it 3 times already. I've not done that before and to me, that area's never been my goal, or even a curiosity and I wouldn't normally go there even if asked but she's so lovely, I think I'll do whatever she asks me to.

This woman is what I would call middle-class and well-spoken, so I was super shocked at her mentioning this.
I'm quite sure she'll have lube I'm not worried about that, she's obviously experienced at this, but do most women wash up there in preparation? She says I can go bareback and that's fine, also would she be offended if I put a condom on for that part? Also, I'm on the larger side, humble brag I know but I'm not even sure if it'll fit.