My partner and I recently have been having this issue with our sex life. I’ve been experiencing vaginal discomfort and itchiness after sex. It lasts maybe a day or it’ll go away if I sleep it off at night (we generally have sex at night). We’ve tried several things, the both of us have shaved our nether regions (me shaved him not, me not shaved him shaved the both of us shaved both us not shaved). We’ve used more lube as well and still. As of now our current theory is that our bed is dusty and has a lot of cat hair. (We own two cats, one of which is a long hair and his hair gets everywhere the other is a short hair but they’re both shedding their winter coats right now.) What other reasons could there be and how might we go about resolving this issue ?

It really sucks :( I just want to enjoy sex and not have this discomfort. Please help.