I’m a married cis man in my mid-50s. I don’t have ED – when I’m aroused I have full function – but getting aroused in the first place has become elusive.

I’ve recently discovered edging, which is basically masturbating almost to the point of orgasm, but holding back and never letting yourself get there. After just a few days of this I was watching tv with my wife and told her to give me a blow job right there on the couch, much to her surprise and delight! (She has been both frustrated and hurt by my lack of interest in sex lately.)

I wonder, can I keep doing this or will the effect wear off over time? Is there a downside to edging I haven’t discovered yet?