My partner and I have been together 30 years. Although she’s somewhat shy and conservative, I’ve been able over time to help her become more open and comfortable with her sexuality. We’ve consistently added new elements to our sexual repertoire as part of that journey. Some of the things we’ve added are introducing sex toys for each of us, visiting nude resorts, watching porn together, attending sex classes with a sex counselor, doing photos and videos of our encounters, listening to sex positive podcasts, regularly reading books on sex, and on and on.

Several weeks ago we added the most combustible item yet. While on vacation, we were looking for an opportunity to indulge in some nude recreation. We bought a day pass for a Lifestyle resort thinking it would be fairly sedate during the week. What happened that day rocked our world to the point we’ve fucked most days since.

There were several couples lounging around the pool (maybe 5-6). We hadn’t realized that open sexual play was the norm. With the sexy vibe . . . open fucking and oral sex . . . we were inspired to go with it. I started by giving her a three finger yoni massage. She reciprocated later with a blow job. The cherry on top, before we left for the day was a vigorous 10 minute fuck on a lounge chair. What made it even hotter was talking with the other couples in between our encounters. No one was creepy. No one asked to join in. The other couples were far enough apart that nothing was in your face. It was simply an amazing afternoon together sharing an incredible sexual energy with others.

We still haven’t come down from the high. We bring it up constantly with one another reliving the afternoon. Consider this my PSA for increased sexual connection through voyeurism, exhibitionism, and tasteful public sex. It’s never too late to add it!