I read in a book by a urologist that at least some men in their 40s may need physical touch to get aroused and get hard and that just looking at women or porn or any of the other stuff might not be enough. I'm turning 43. I seem to be in this boat. I don't get hard just looking at porn any more. My wife and I did have sex this past weekend, though, and the erection was pretty good compared to have things have been going for me lately. After some manual and oral, I was pretty rigid and performed well and didn't lose my erection.

Is this similar for others? I'm guessing some guys will still get hard just thinking about or seeing something sexy.