So my husband and I have been experimenting with anal play on him with great and pleasurable results.

We purchased some toys together, butt plugs and beads etc, and also got a strap on kit. The kit came with 3 different dildos, a slim one, a huge thick one, and a curved one meant for p spot stimulation. We have so far only used the slim one to take things steadily and carefully, and although we both enjoyed ourselves I think it could have gone better.

I had the harness tight on me to help keep things in place, but the weight of the dildo made it gape ever so slightly at the front. This may have had an impact on the direction/angle of penetration. Basically the dildo kept slipping out and so we kept changing positions but never quite mastered the right one. Not sure if it was down to the gape, or if it was my angle of entry etc as obviously I can’t feel the dick going in to know if it was right/slipping out. We used plenty of lube and made sure this was topped up throughout, but the constant position changes were distracting.

Are there any positions that are better than others? Or is it just a case of practice in terms of my technique and movements? Also the dildos that came with the kit are all at least 6 inches long, is it worth investing in something slightly shorter to help aid more comfortable deeper penetration and to help avoid the slipping out?

And advice much appreciated!