We are looking for recommendations on lube, specifically something more along the lines of a “massage butter” rather than liquid that’s safe for toys/internal. F in relationship isn’t a big fan of the application of liquid lubes and prefers something along the lines of a “butter” consistency rather than a liquid. It’s a mental hurdle and mess containment in the moment issue, not a complaint about the products themselves.

Lube is typically used for toys only, which are typically high quality silicone, or stainless. The brands Common Confidential or Southern Butter came up, but we can’t find a ton of reviews or confirmation of safety with various toys. We stick to high quality toys at this point in our lives, so we’d like to keep them from damage.