Ok I'm looking for some advice from a couple who have perhaps just had their first MFM experience. I've had this kink/fantasy for as long as I can recall and it's been a go-to dirty talk in the bedroom with my wife. She's recently said she wants to try a mfm which was an exciting admission and got my head spinning. We've talked about it and she feels it would need to be with someone we know as she doesn't want to risk the things that might come with a random dude

Time for some back story... About the time she and I met she had/has a close male friend where they had a complicated relationship statusm but not romantic and nothing ever happened between the two.. They are still close friends and I'm friends with him as well. I totally accept they have a deeper friendship than some and trust her/them implicitly and she's totally open with me about their friendship.

So back to the now.. She can't see a mfm with a stranger and needs to trust whoever that third might be. So as you can probably guess, her preference would be to have her friend be our third. I was not at all surprised to hear this and was actually initially curious to see if she'd suggest him as an option when we started taking for real about doing this.

Have any couples had a similar situation where the partner chosen was someone that your wife was personally partial to and with whom the was previous feelings of attraction? I'm not concerned about the past history and if anything I'm the most nervous about knowing this fantasy could be a reality and that's what I don't really know what to feel about. Nervous/excited is a weird sensation...any advice for someone on the precipice?

Update

Fun update time. So my wife and I got away just the two of us and had a fun hotel sex romp and virtually included our third. It was fucking hot watching my wife make videos and take pictures of what we were doing and then sending them to our third. Great ice breaker if you ask me 🔥🥒💦 new frontiers