Many of you know u/MyExsparamour from her many solid contributions to SO30, r/DeadBedrooms, r/BecomingOrgasmic, r/LowLibidoCommunity, and other subs over the last six years. She has written many great posts and helpful long comments, including quite a few that have ended up in our Wiki and are often linked as good resources in reply to posts.

Some of you also know her from her first book, The Dead Bedroom Repair Manual: A comprehensive guide to bringing sexual passion back to your relationship. It's easily the best book we've found for couples going through a dry patch or dealing with differences in desired frequency, and we feature it prominently in the Dead Bedrooms/Mismatched Libido section of our Wiki.

She has now written a new book on women's sexuality and how women can have great sex. The mods who have read it think it is an important book that will help many of our readers. Although the book is written from the perspective of helping women have more satisfying sex, we think it will also be helpful to men who love women and want to better understand how to help us reach that goal.

It's currently available for pre-order on Amazon for $3.99. It will be live on April 4, but we would like to encourage readers who are interested in buying it to pre-order it on Amazon if at all possible. The number of pre-orders has a huge influence on Amazon's algorithm and how visible it makes the book to other people, so if you plan to buy it, we urge you to please do it now.

If you can't afford it, or just prefer to read before you buy, MyEx has generously made her book available for free in PDF form to SO30 readers. As she says, "This is a labour of love for me and not about making money."

Here is a link to the book in pdf form. If you download it, the table of contents is clickable:

• The Good Sex Cookbook: Recipes for a satisfying and healthy sexual relationship (pdf)

And here's the link to the pre-order page on Amazon:

• The Good Sex Cookbook: Recipes for a satisfying and healthy sexual relationship

Again, pre-orders count a LOT in the Amazon system, so if you read it & like it and want to promote it, we encourage you to order it before April 4th. (And if you think it's worthy of a 5 star rating/review, that counts a lot too!)