Wife and I (closer to 40 than 30), have an amazing sex life, but occasionally she doesn’t feel relaxed enough to fully let loose.
It’s the stress of work, kids, money etc, she just has a lot on her plate, so it’s understandable. Sex while drinking one time was amazing for her (and me lol) but the hang over not so much (she rarely drinks). She tried an edible a few weeks back, but didn’t notice much difference. She wants to know if anyone has any recommendations for edibles, anything to help her relax, or heighten the experience which may turn her focus to what’s happening in the moment (specifically for adult time). She’s not on Reddit yet (trying to get her here).

FYI, this will not be a common occurrence, if she drinks alcohol, it’s once or twice a year at most. She would like something so if we get a date night or night away, she can fully be in the moment without the outside distractions.