Just for a little background: We've been a couple for 13 years and we have a very good relationship. We both have no problem talking about sex, and we're very comfortable with each other naked and sexually etc.

Ok.

So, a while back my wife and I did an audio guided meditation. Afterwards she asked me if I thought that there were any audio guided sexual experiences. I had no idea what that would be like, but I'd probably be into it. So I look around and I actually found a site that does this! They have several different types of guided audios, ones for solo play and ones for partner play, ones where one partner is following the instructions and ones where the other partner is, ones you play out loud, and ones you just listen to with headphones so your partner doesn't know what you're going to do. I told her about it and she said wanted to try it sometime.

So then I had an exciting idea. She has no idea what this audio will be like. (I don't either for that matter). So, if I wrote a script myself...it can be anything I want and she'd be none the wiser. I could hire some voice performer to record it. What a perfect opportunity to craft an unforgettable sexual experience for both of us! I'll have to be a little careful though because she knows what I like so if the audio is too "on the nose" she might get suspicious.

I can instruct her to relax and spend some time on herself. She's something of a compulsive giver and has a hard time sitting still and letting things be done to her.

When she does cowgirl for instance I think she's always trying to ride for my benefit and rarely for her pleasure. I could be very specific in the instructions: when you are riding this time, you want to be doing what feels good for YOU. Try different angles, different movements, different positions of your limbs to see what feels good. Don't rush. Take your time.

I'll put a couple of fun things in the audio for me too. For instance, it absolutely drives me wild when she turns around and I get to see her touching herself from behind. She has no problem if I ask her to do it, but she's never done it on her own accord. But the audio can instruct her to do that. Mmmmm.

I think it will be much easier for her to really let go if she feels like it's part of the experience she's undergoing. And hopefully that will allow her to experience some things she hasn't before.

Any thoughts? Comments? Suggestions? Ideas? Criticisms?