We first, did this for people in long-term relationships (5 years or more). Last time, it was for people in newer relationships, 1-5 years.

This time, it's those of you who are either single or dating but not yet in a long-term-ish relationship.

Folks don’t need to answer every one of these questions, since not all of them may apply to your situation. And obviously, only share what you’re comfortable with:

The Basics

• Describe yourself relationship by age, gender and how long you've been single/dating e.g. 42f, 1.5 years)
• Relationship status, e.g. single, dating someone new, dating several people, etc.
• Monogamous? Open? Poly? "It's complicated"?

Your Sex Life

• In a sentence, describe the current state of your sex life?
• How often per week or month are you sexually intimate? (Not limited only to PIV)
• What's good about your sex life, overall?
• What's challenging about it?
• If you are dating: how are you meeting people? Apps? Hobby groups? Etc.

What's On the Menu?

• What's in the regular rotation, e.g. oral, PIV, mutual masturbatiom, anal, etc.?
• What are the "special" things you occasionally enjoy with partners but don't do frequently?
• Any activities you'd like to explore but haven't had the opportunity yet?
• What activities do you enjoy the most?
• What, if anything, are you concerned about in regards to what your sex life might look like down the road?

Wrapping Up*

• What's the best advice you'd give people about making sex consistently fulfilling in a relationship, especially while single/dating?

• (Is there anything we didn't ask but should have?)