Hubby gave me a hall pass to explore my suspicions that I’m bi. I’ve always been able to appreciate a nice pair of titties but idk if I just appreciate the human body or if I’m full blown bi. So why not find out?

I don’t want it to be a friend bc, obviously. I don’t want to ruin a friendship with sex. And I don’t want it to be someone I know or will run into regularly in case it’s awkward or goes awry. Our town doesn’t have a “gay bar” anymore and I’m already bad at making platonic fiends as it is. And if it weren’t for my friends setting me and my husband up I probably would have never had the balls to make any sort of moves bc I’m awkward af as a human just in general. How do you go about finding a no strings attached, possible (consensual) one night stand these days? Am I stuck with dating apps like tinder?

I will 100% be requiring an STD test, and will take one myself as a courtesy. My husband and I have been together almost 12 years and I’m not risking bringing something into our relationship just bc I wanted to try eating pussy. And will rent a hotel room for it bc I don’t want to go to a strangers house and wouldn’t expect someone to go to a strangers house.

Where do I start? Help!

Edit: I just wanted to clarify that I’m not looking to open my marriage. I just wanted a ONS to try physically being with a woman, and I’m completely upfront about that. I know that the hookup culture is booming and that’s what I want. A hookup. I’m not looking to nefariously use a woman, I’m not looking to hurt someone by catfishing someone or tricking them into thinking I want a relationship like I think some commenters are insinuating. That’s why I came here. The comments have given me a lot to think about, especially the whole “not needing to physically be with a woman to know I like them.” That’s why I’m confused in my sexuality I guess. I’m not a piece of garbage that’s trying to shamelessly fuck someone. I’m sorry if my bluntness or sense of humor (the science experiment comment) has offended anyone, but I’m trying to be straightforward in every aspect of this. My husband and I have had a conversation about this and asked each other many questions and what ifs. The way some of you are perceiving me and my motives make me regret even asking for help. Our sex culture has changed so much in the little over a decade since I was dating and I was simply asking for advice as someone who was out of touch with this aspect of the world.